Though you may be admiring the view from how far you have come, you may be questioning, “Is there a point where this gets easier than this?”

You’ve spent your whole life and thousands of dollars to get to a point where you feel like, this is it, you can rest your laurels and leave the battlefield behind. You’ve read the books, repeated all the affirmations, attended seminars and retreats, and gotten so far already. You want so badly to feel settled and for all your hard work to pay off with your hard earned peace as the reward.

Maybe it’s not about needing more and more information, maybe it’s about that sweet click of integration where the parts and pieces of you finally come together, feeling parts of yourself that you have been disconnected from for far too long and no one has ever shown you how.

No matter how big the mountains you have scaled or moved, how much you have consumed or how put together it all looks, there still seems to be a gnawing feeling of not-quite-there-ness, note-quite-together-ness, not-quite-home, uncertainty and anxiety running in the background of your mind, body, and nervous system; especially when you try to relax.

You feel a sense restlessness and unease that you can't quite put your finger on. You have had such great opportunities, you have come so far... You know you are meant for more. For a life rich with meaning, passion, and purpose. And you have it! Now more than ever! So, why the unease?

You didn’t come this far to only come this far and you can't deny feeling a bit tired. And it feels hard to relax and soak it all up when there is still lingering uncertainty looming large despite your successes. It is hard to surrender when you have prided yourself on your ability to overcome. You have always been able to figure it out, take it on, yet this approach is now outmoded and no longer serving your highest good. All of this stress and suffering is burning up all the fuel for your unlived dreams, untapped potential and truest desires.

This is a wonderful position to be in, though it may not feel like it. It is a place of transition, unburdening, becoming more authentic, and of creative potential awakening and stretching across the canvas to be ready for a masterpiece to be painted on.

When you have the same response to life on repeat, it's like a preferred crayon color, a preferred technique that you have learned and relied on for so long that it is ingrained in you. When I was a kid, I would prefer some colors and use them to stubs while leaving others barely touched. Sometimes, we learn something and it satisfies our need to make something make sense and work, and then we keep perfecting it again and again, long past the time it has served its usefulness for us. When a way of being, doing, thinking, and living has outlived its usefulness for us, we can sense that we have outgrown and outworn it and feel it as a feeling of discontent that we can't quite put our finger on.

You aren’t too much. You aren't asking or wanting for too much. It is not that you have failed to do enough or that you could have made different choices.

You are not failing to be positive or grateful enough. You aren’t asking for too much, feeling too much, and your desires are not too big. You are not being too big for your britches. It is not a ridiculous pie in the sky pipe dream to ask for it all to be made much, much easier for you to have it all and enjoy it too. It is indeed possible. You can do it. You do have what it takes. But to turn all this struggle into a flow of richly rewarding possibilities, you need the right help because if you could have done it on your own, you would have. You are right there at the finish line on this stage of growth and expansion, you just need a little help the rest of the way to support you through this transition.

There aren't many self-help and personal development resources where the unwelcome is welcome, where resistance is accepted and befriended, where failures reveal strengths, and your struggle is not a problem to be solved but an experience to be embraced and integrated. My mission is to change and challenge that, to make it clear that your discontent, your un-resolved-ness, the way you are, life, is not a problem to be solved or fixed, and to show you the bigger picture of your true potential.

Thatʼs why I am sharing the incredible gifts of insight that have changed my own life with you, so that it can be made so much easier and smoother for you sooner rather than later.

The Complex Problem

“A struggle for existence inevitably follows from the high rate at which all organic beings tend to increase. Every being, which during its natural lifetime produces several eggs or seeds, must suffer destruction during some period of its life and during some season or occasional year, otherwise on the principle of geometrical increase, its numbers would quickly become so inordinately great that no country could support the product. Hence, as more individuals are produced than can possibly survive, there must in every case be a struggle for existence, either one individual with another of the same species, or with the individuals of distinct species, or with the physical conditions of life.”

Charles Darwin, On Natural Selection

The Radical Solution

We have the power to transcend our psychobiology by plugging it into our higher consciousness and creativity.

Think of all the ways you could enjoy more time with loved ones, becoming so much more loving and patient because you are so much more trusting and open to life, more prosperous because you are so much more trusting and open to receiving, so much more successful because you are so much more trusting of and open to yourself, your capabilities, your talents and gifts, your personal power! This is our power to change everything:

“We are then, creatures like no others, with extraordinary flexibility of behavior, powers of imagination, and above all, conscious self-awareness. That self-awareness has enabled us, alone among living things, to stand above the imperatives of survival and reproduction and seek to understand how we came to be."

― Kenneth R. Miller, The Human Instinct: How We Evolved to Have Reason, Consciousness, and Free Will